Listen when they want...

Yes, we've all have them. The "friends" who are only there when they want to be or when they need something-that's not a friend. They are absolutely useless and in no way being a friend if they don't listen or they ignore you when you are sad or vent or need someone to talk to. Yes they sure are there in the good times and fun.

Yes, this is a lesson I keep forgetting and relearning...maybe one day soon I will learn, don't share, don't talk, just walk away and let them be. They are not worth the time. But more than anything it means they don't care-let them go.

I know I have my moments when people are talking to me and I don't fully listen, or give feedback when they are expecting it or wanting it, needing it. Otherwise why would they be sharing with me? I try not to do that and if I do, I apologize to them as soon as I realize it. But I never blatantly ignore or acknowledge or not act like I care to people I do care about. Not replying does that. To me it says I don't care and you are not worth my time.

I get that now....lesson learned. Go find someone else next time you need someone or something.
I'm done.